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11 13, 2018

What 5,000 Phone Sex Calls Taught Me about Gay Men

By | 2018-11-13T11:37:04+00:00 November 13th, 2018|Book Review, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

The number might be a little low. Over the course of my “phone fantasy” career in the 1980s, I spoke to as many as ten customers in a given day, numbering in the many thousands over the years. That’s a lot of heavy breathing. It began when I was a struggling actor in Los Angeles [...]

11 9, 2018

The History of HIV/AIDS in One Astonishing Poem

By | 2018-11-09T18:19:20+00:00 November 9th, 2018|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

Mary Bowman performing at the opening of the 20th Anniversary Community Summit. The team behind the 20th Anniversary Community Summit, being held in Atlanta this weekend and sponsored by ViiV Healthcare, knew how to open the event today on exactly the right foot. The first words attendees heard were the poetry of Mary [...]

10 24, 2018

This Drag Queen Will Steal Your Heart. Then Completely Destroy It.

By | 2018-10-24T13:08:37+00:00 October 24th, 2018|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

Benjamin Schatz of The Kinsey Sicks at the 2018 United States Conference on AIDS. The Kinsey Sicks have been at this a long time. The acapella singing group of gay men in drag are celebrating 25 years of performing shows that are equal parts camp comedy and very of-the-moment political humor. Benjamin Schatz [...]

10 16, 2018

Stop Bludgeoning Young Gay Men with Our AIDS Tragedy

By | 2018-10-26T09:20:15+00:00 October 16th, 2018|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

Lesley was my closest friend to become sick in the 1980's, and he fought bravely until his death from AIDS. Today, there are little rituals I have to honor his memory, and I often write about him, the first of many friends lost to the epidemic. But there's something I will not do. I will [...]

10 2, 2018

In Praise of Sam Elliott (and the Night He Showed Up for People with HIV)

By | 2018-10-02T13:31:03+00:00 October 2nd, 2018|Film Review, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News|0 Comments

  A moment of reverence, please. In 1975, I went to the movies and discovered everything I needed to know about men, sexual allure, chest hair and the masculine ideal that would fuel my fantasies for the rest of my natural life. The film was Lifeguard and the star was Sam Elliott. You unfortunate folks under 40 may only [...]

09 27, 2018

AIDS2020 Will Welcome All the Right People to the USA. What a Travesty.

By | 2018-09-27T20:57:05+00:00 September 27th, 2018|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy, Trump|0 Comments

It is every bit as absurd as it sounds. The International AIDS Society (IAS) plans to hold their global AIDS2020 conference in San Francisco – an insanely expensive and privileged city located in a country that has become dangerously inhospitable to the very populations the IAS claims to serve. Thank goodness for a growing army [...]

09 11, 2018

Five Takeaways from the 2018 United States Conference on AIDS

By | 2018-09-17T17:23:30+00:00 September 11th, 2018|Family and Friends, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy|2 Comments

The presenters of the HIV Survivor Monologues: Lillibeth Gonzales, Bryan Jones, Teresa Sullivan, Mark S. King, Rick Guasco, and Esther Ross. “What family doesn’t have its ups and downs?” -- Eleanor of Aquitaine, The Lion in Winter The 2018 United States Conference on AIDS (USCA), the HIV advocacy, education and networking behemoth produced [...]

08 14, 2018

The Truth About the 7,000: Why Are People Still Dying of AIDS?

By | 2018-08-14T13:40:15+00:00 August 14th, 2018|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

(This essay, which originally appeared in the April/May issue of Poz Magazine, ignited conversations about "unexpected" AIDS deaths among those in our circle of friends. It is also the basis for a workshop at the upcoming United States Conference on AIDS (USCA) entitled "Are We Shaming Those Who Are Detectable?" The workshop will take place [...]

08 1, 2018

AIDS2018: The Complete Video Collection from My Fabulous Disease

By | 2018-08-01T10:50:13+00:00 August 1st, 2018|Family and Friends, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy, Trump|0 Comments

Attendees at the "OUT WITH IT" pre-conference of AIDS2018 in Amsterdam. One of the great joys of my HIV/AIDS writing and video blogging over the years has been capturing the sights, sounds, and incredible people of the International AIDS Society’s (IAS) biannual conference. I’ve spent sleepless nights in hotel rooms everywhere from Vienna [...]

07 16, 2018

My Fabulous Disease Will Report from AIDS2018 in Amsterdam

By | 2018-07-16T10:34:14+00:00 July 16th, 2018|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

Mark S. King and co-producer Theodore Tsipiras The International AIDS Conference will be held in Amsterdam on July 23-27, and My Fabulous Disease – that’s me! -- will once again be there to share daily video reports from the event. I have attended and provided video coverage for each of the bi-yearly conferences [...]

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