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06 16, 2014

Sally Field, Rational Relating, and a Comedy of Life with HIV

By | June 16th, 2014|Book Review, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease|0 Comments

Charles Sanchez skips a lot. It is a natural, vivacious skip, an outpouring of unabashed joy that melds the cheerfulness of The Sound of Music with the bliss of the Pharrell Williams "Happy" video. Nothing stands in the way of his delight. Not even life with HIV. It is that joyful vibrancy that makes Merce, [...]

02 28, 2014

Our Problem with Being ‘CURED’ of HIV

By | February 28th, 2014|Book Review, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News|5 Comments

In the late 1980's, I let this odd, fussy man into my office at LA Shanti, my first AIDS agency job. He seemed earnest and harmless and he just wanted a few minutes of my time. "I have the cure for AIDS," he politely announced. Sadly, he wasn't the first person to say that to [...]

10 22, 2012

The Truth is Bad Enough: What Became of the Happy Hustler?

By | October 22nd, 2012|Book Review, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease|5 Comments

Kearns’ story includes a bizarre intersection between us that I found so revelatory and disturbing that I had to actually put the book down for several days while I reexamined an entire section of my life.

03 15, 2011

The Book with a Promise: It Gets Better

By | March 15th, 2011|Book Review, Family and Friends, Gay Life, My Fabulous Disease, News|4 Comments

There were moments while reading It Gets Better, the new book inspired by the YouTube video project to help bullied youth, when my heart leapt to my throat and hovered there. It happened a few times, quite unexpectedly, usually while in the middle of some essay from an author I'd never heard of. In an [...]

11 8, 2010

Examining death, including the one I caused.

By | November 8th, 2010|Book Review, Family and Friends, Gay Life, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease|16 Comments

My memorial service will be fabulous, I can assure you of that. I first outlined it during the initial, deadly wave of AIDS in the 1980's, and have edited it here and there over the years, updating the songs I would like played or the video footage shown. Focusing on the spectacle, though, may just [...]

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