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09 28, 2017

‘After Louie’ Film Review: An AIDS Survivor, Barely Surviving

By | 2018-03-23T11:41:29+00:00 September 28th, 2017|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News|0 Comments

Zachary Booth and Alan Cumming in "After Louie." Sam Cooper, a shell-shocked gay veteran of the 1980’s, has invited Braeden, a much younger man, out for a hamburger after their sexual tryst. Braeden has been mindlessly chattering about his life and friends and how he negotiates casual sex outside his relationship. Hookups carry [...]

04 21, 2017

Sean McKenna: Life with AIDS Isn’t So Damn ‘Fabulous’

By | 2018-03-23T11:41:41+00:00 April 21st, 2017|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

(Sean McKenna, as part of a portrait series by photographer David Meanix.) Last December I attended the most moving, transcendent World AIDS Day program I have witnessed in years. That’s not saying much, of course. These evenings are usually well-meaning but maudlin, featuring tearful eulogies while we hold up candles that drip on our fingers and [...]

03 22, 2017

The Irony of Aging: The HIV/AIDS Seniors Conference

By | 2018-03-23T11:41:42+00:00 March 22nd, 2017|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, News|0 Comments

Thirty-two years ago this month, I received a phone call from a nurse at my doctor’s office telling me that I had tested HIV positive. We didn’t schedule a follow-up visit or begin a treatment plan, because there wasn’t a single medication approved for the virus, which had only been identified the previous year. The [...]

06 6, 2016

Reclaiming ‘Our Golden Years’ as People with HIV

By | 2018-03-23T11:42:12+00:00 June 6th, 2016|Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News|1 Comment

Atlantan Jesse Peel, at 76, is one of those featured in Positively Aware's special issue, "Our Golden Years." Photo: Charles Green My friend Olivia G. Ford (she got that whole middle initial thing from me, I’m convinced of it) speaks even faster than I do. That’s a rare distinction. Olivia is also an [...]

06 5, 2016

Surviving Life Itself: Reflections of a Longtime Survivor

By | 2018-03-23T11:42:12+00:00 June 5th, 2016|Family and Friends, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy|0 Comments

The young woman sitting across from me on the bus is in her mid-20s. She turns to her companion and her voice grows serious. “I know someone who died,” she says in the hushed tone reserved for tales of mortality. Her friend looks up from his phone. “He was a good friend of my brother,” [...]

05 12, 2016

Into the Desert, After the Bomb

By | 2018-03-23T11:42:14+00:00 May 12th, 2016|Book Review, Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News|2 Comments

Daniel Cardone’s essential but relentlessly grim documentary about longtime AIDS survivors, Desert Migration, is fascinated with the bodies of the gay men it profiles. The film begins with lingering shots of each of the subjects as they begin their day.  It follows them through their routine, some of them naked, as they prepare breakfast, shower, [...]

11 6, 2015

Why I Wiped HIV Off My Face

By | 2018-03-23T11:42:24+00:00 November 6th, 2015|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, My Fabulous Disease, News|0 Comments

Some years ago, I told someone that I was HIV positive before I agreed to his invitation for a date. “Yeah, I know,” he casually replied, and then he looked a little embarrassed, as if he shouldn’t have said it. It was too late, of course; I knew exactly what he meant. He could tell [...]

03 24, 2013

Behind the Scenes of the Video Series “A Day in the Life”

By | 2014-05-21T13:25:23+00:00 March 24th, 2013|Gay Life, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, Prevention and Policy|1 Comment

I was knocked out by these people and their daily courage and fortitude. I really want to thank this group for taking me into their homes and lives and allowing me to share their stories with you.

09 9, 2011

Those Doggone Days of Summer

By | 2011-09-09T22:26:24+00:00 September 9th, 2011|Anita Mann and Acting Gigs, Family and Friends, Living with HIV/AIDS, Meth and Recovery, My Fabulous Disease, News, Prevention and Policy|8 Comments

July and August were almost frantically productive for me, and I've followed it by the longest period of, well, nothing, since I began producing this blog. Sorry. Sometimes an HIV guy just needs to lay around and catch up on Top Chef and Real Housewives (God bless you, Bravo). Hopefully you caught my most recent [...]

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