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September 3rd, 2013

The Real Poz Guys of Atlanta III

Why Andy Cohen isn’t badgering me with phone calls to bring this series to Bravo, I’ll never know.

Nearly four years ago, I invited four friends living with HIV over to my place for a night of devouring brownies and sharing secrets, while my friend Charles captured it on video. The result was “You Gotta Have Friends,” the first episode of what would be renamed “The Real Poz Guys of Atlanta.” The second episode was posted more than a year later (you can see a recap and both previous episodes here). And now, episode three.

These guys must be getting the hang of this, because we discussed and revealed things like never before. From crystal meth addiction to our mothers, nothing was off limits. There’s even a (NSFW-ish) chat about tops and bottoms and modern gay sexual politics. And dealing with loss. And reaching out for help when you really need it.

Real Poz Guys PIC 2013I’m not going to lie, I’m proud of this video. It’s clear that my editing skills have improved since our first episode along with the group’s ability to keep it real. More importantly, the video series represents a lot of issues I feel passionately about – combating HIV stigma with honesty about our status, the crucial importance of social support, and living joyfully. That, and I love hearing my friends talk dirty for a good reason.

I really hope you share this one with your friends and networks (select one of the share features below). I think it represents what this site does best. And judging from the emails I receive, there’s a real need for people with HIV, particularly the newly diagnosed, to know that life, and friendship, doesn’t end with a positive test result.

I look forward to your comments! Thanks for watching, and please be well.

Mark

(The Poz Guys pictured above are (left to right) James, myself, Antron, Eric, and Craig. I’m the only one who isn’t single; I know they would appreciate me mentioning that.)
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PLUS…

day with HIVOur friend Jeff Berry from Positively Aware has announced the fourth annual “A Day with HIV” photo campaign, and this project is so cool – and so damn easy to participate in – that I tramadol dosage for dogs want to challenge you to just do it. It works like this: they collect photographs and captions from hundreds of people from a single day, Saturday, September 21, to help the world better understand the trials and triumphs of living with HIV. Some are artsy, some are simple photos (like the 2012 submission from Jason Zupke at right). Select photos will appear in the November/December issue of Positively Aware, and all of the photos submitted will appear on the campaign’s website. Give it a click to find out more.

atlanta pride picIf you are anywhere near Atlanta this October 13, would you like to join me in my role as a Grand Marshal for the Atlanta Pride Parade? When I learned of this honor recently, I knew I needed to share it with friends like you or else my ego might blow my head open halfway down the parade route. I’m asking people living with HIV and our allies to walk beside my car (I’m hoping for a red convertible!). I would love a message of solidarity and support for people with HV, and anti-stigma messages like “I love my Poz boyfriend!” and “HIV Educated – UB2.” The first 20 people to show up will get a free HIV POSITIVE t-shirt provided by AIDS Foundation Chicago. I’m excited to already have the support of The Stigma Project and the CDC’s Let’s Stop HIV Together campaign. To get the latest details, go to Facebook and join the My Fabulous Disease page. See you then!

uscaThe United States Conference on AIDS (USCA) is in New Orleans this weekend. I love this conference, because it provides skills building for people working on the front lines in community based organizations and public health — exactly where I spent a lot of the early years of HIV/AIDS. Anyway, I’ll be video blogging from the event and providing you the sights, sounds and people who are making a difference. If you happen to be there, please join me for a panel presentation this Sunday morning at 10:30am, when those of us participating in the CDC’s “Let’s Stop HIV Together” campaign discuss living with HIV and our commitment to HIV prevention.

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3 Responses to “The Real Poz Guys of Atlanta III”

  1. Jonathan G Says:

    September 3rd, 2013 at 12:50 pm

    So, Mark, congrats! How long did your car last that you won on The Price is Right last century? Will Michael be joining you in October? Looking forward to seeing the videos when home tonight, off to yet another medical appointment

  2. jb Says:

    September 3rd, 2013 at 6:46 pm

    WOW!!!

  3. Phillip Fielding Says:

    September 18th, 2013 at 10:25 am

    I was so jealous, initially watching this 3-video series. I too am living with HIV. I’ve known I had it since the early ’90s. I too once had such close friends, who started dying in the mid ’80’s and continued dying until I no longer had close friends. I get so angry. The new drugs brought my CD-4 up from zero. I do have new friends and I do love them. This video reminded me of those close bonds I held with those lost friends with whom I grew up. So I acquiesce to a lonely gratitude to you for reminding me of those more intimate bonds.

    (Don’t give up on developing new ones, Phillip. Although some in our group have known one another for twenty years, others only became friends when we started this series. Is it easy to develop friendships as we age? Not really; we get set in our ways and closed off to that as time goes by, I believe. So I just keep taking the risk by reaching out and asking for friendships among those in my social circle, in support groups or church or through my advocacy. And I’ve found that most everyone wants new intimates in their life, and usually respond favorably when I reach out. As uncomfortably as it is to feel like a high school kid trying to make friends, the result, and the rewards, usually pay off. — Mark)

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